Thursday, 31 January 2013

Is writing arduous task?



                   What is writing? Writing is a method of representing language in visual or tactile form. Is writing an arduous task? Is it difficult or easy? We find writing is difficult and requiring long hours. We had be taught the besic of writing since young. In primary school, we just need to see picture and write a story. In secoundary school, the expectation given to students are increasing. They expect us to write what we knew about every subjects. Sometimes we might be unable to explain what we had learned when doing a paper test. We will have difficulty and get struck.
                   Many people found that writitng is difficult for a variety of reasons. Probably is because it's a permanent from of speech. When we speaking in our real life, we can easily excuse yourself for saying something that's not incredibly smart, because we know everyone of us making same mistakes. If we make serious goof while speaking, we can appologize, using whatever silliness we wan to say. That is fine, because we all done that. Writing is more permanent, it not like we can go back to write. ''Oh sorry about this error, I apologize for that.'' If we write like this is very weird.
                  Beside this, writing is difficult because there are too many rules we need to remember. 'Grammar' do u remember the red marks we all throughout school that showed our grammar was less perfect? Grammar are very complicated and we hard to remenber all the rules. But if we make too many spelling and grammatical errors in an important letter or email, you'll be seen as less professional or less educated. If we chat with someone online, the other person might wonder if you have the brain of a 12 years old.
                 However I still have the interest to write because this can express my self. When I stressed out through certain situation in my lives, writing can let me clam down. Putting all on a page can help me solve all those problems or just provide me a sense of peace by expressing the feeling rather than keeping them in my heart. Diaries and blog is the prefect place for me.

Thursday, 17 January 2013

The Reasons and Disadvantage Couples Cohabitation Before Marriage




                    Cohabitation are also called consensual union. It refers to unmarried heterosexual couple living together in an intimte relationship. Cohabition is not as socially acceptable as marriage, but social expected that cohabiting partners will eventually become married. Most of the western country young couples preferred cohabitation before marriage.
                   The reason why couples cohabitation before marriage is because they feel that if they can make a success of their living together, they might be able to consider marriage in the future. Sharing a life together will easily insight into the habits and personality of the other person which will be invaluable in deciding whether he or she is the right person to marriage. Young couple feel that compare to dating does not guarantee success in marriage.
                  Beside this, fear for loneliness also may drive people to cohabitated with partners. Living together may mean that partners are always available physically, sexually and emotionally for each other. It seems an ideal and arrangement for people who do not wan to be alone and wan to avoid the responsibilities of marrage.
                 However the disadvantage of couple cohabitation before marriage may affect relationships with parents. Many families considered cohabitation are morally wrong and embarrassing.
                 This is also unfair for female because female who cohabitate are the one who suffer the most loss during break up of the reliationship. Cohabitation will bring to abortion too.
                 In the conclusion, I feel that cohabitors live in noncommitted relationships that value independence, marrieds promise to care for each other “in sickness and in health”. There are many mental and physical health benefits of knowing there is another person who will take care of you when you cannot take care of yourself.

The really strange thing is that the email is apparently from your future self. What does it say?


To: My 'Juvenscence' Suting

              Hi Suting! I'm your future self. Please do not be suprise! My world now is 1st January 2077, I had married to a good man and have 4 children. Now I'm having my happy life now.
I'm your future self, I'm you. When I was you (your age), hoping some can tell me my future. That is the reason you believe the futune teller, but you cannot find anyone who knows about your future like me. So please trust me, because I'm your future self.
              I'm here to give u advise, to make your future more smooth. Today is your beginning of your new life 1st January 2013, you already grow up to 21 years old. Are you ready for all challenge, don't be scared I'm here to guide you. In our life will face many difficultise, but please don't give up remember the secret of success is you should clam down and get through the darkness before dawn.
              Beside this, at your stage rite now just study hard. Reading is very important steps improved your language. Memories is the secound steps to improve your language, you should not lazy to go through steps by steps. Homework and work you should learn to do without other's help, do not rely on other. Everyone have their own job. Beside this, you must be responsible by managing your time and pass up home work on time. The little deduction marks will have big affect on ur result.
             My dear girl, spend more time with your family. They always waiting you to come back home. When you having problem the first come and save you are your family member. Love have shelf life, love must be promptly, love needs has never been oral commitment, but the real action.
             Dear young self, after read my email don't need to reply me, because I am waiting for you in your future.

Your loving self,

Suting

My 10 New Year Resolution in 2013


  1. Workout Regulary
  2. Stay Happy
  3. Good Time Management
  4. Manage My Financial Well
  5. Spend More Time With My Love one
  6. Gain weight
  7. Pass all Subjects
  8. Help Other Often
  9. Improve my English Writing Skill
  10. Improve my Cooking Skill